Herpes is a common sexually transmitted infection (STI) caused by the herpes simplex virus. There are two types of herpes simplex virus: HSV-1, which usually causes oral herpes (cold sores), and HSV-2, which usually causes genital herpes. Having herpes does not mean that you cannot have a fulfilling and intimate relationship.
People with herpes can still lead healthy and active sexual lives, and many couples in which one partner has herpes have successful relationships. It is essential to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your herpes status and to take steps to reduce the risk of transmission, such as using condoms and avoiding sexual activity during outbreaks.
If you are considering dating someone with herpes, educating yourself about the condition, its transmission, and the ways to reduce the risk of infection is a good idea. If you have any concerns, it is also a good idea to talk to a healthcare provider who can provide you with more information and guidance.